Friday, June 19, 2009

Seriously?

What the fuck.

One of my former coworkers has a 24 year old daughter. I've known her for 10 years. She has a LOT of issues- depression, learning disabilities, mood disorders... she smokes, cigarettes and pot, drinks, and parties. She has a HS diploma and lives with her mom. She jumps from job to job to job and is currently unemployed.

Don't get me wrong. She's a nice girl, just lost and a bit immature.

And pregnant.

She recently requested me as a friend on face.book. Apparently she's like 16 weeks pregnant. I just saw them about two weeks ago and neither said anything to me. I'm pretty sure my other coworker knows, and have a feeling she hasn't told me on purpose.

Apparently the father is her boyfriend/exboyfriend (relationship status went from "In a..." to "Single" to "It's complicated") who already has kids.

So not fair.

4 comments:

Jess said...

It isn't fair at all! Everday my brother's crazy gf seems to get bigger and I can't help but ask why? Why am I struggling to have a baby when people like her are pregnant...sigh! My brother's gf smokes about a 1/2 pack a day and it just kills me that and that fact that she is married to someone else...I can't help but be bitter when I look at her!

Sorry, I know this post was about your friend's daughter but it reminded me of my ugly, soon to be witch of a SIL, who abuses the ER to get what she wants from my brother!

I'm still sending you positive thoughts and prayers...I know your trying to not think about your beta, so I'm doing it for you! :)

Jess said...

P.S. I can really relate to you for some reason...At times, I feel like I'm reading my own blogs when I read yours.

c by the sea said...

that's so f*&king annoying!

thanks for your reassurance about my bleeding. i've got my fingers crossed for you for your beta...is it thursday?

Becky said...

i agree that sucks, totally not fair. I will never understand why god lets woman like this gets pregnant and not others, who should be parents, again not fair at all!!!