tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490650363114465915.post6989025866498117325..comments2024-02-11T23:41:01.873-08:00Comments on <br><br>You call me a bitch like it's a bad thing...: Where I don't fit inJust mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05671919237872985299noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490650363114465915.post-92129198006823911412009-10-26T13:23:24.414-07:002009-10-26T13:23:24.414-07:00i think you said it well, that it wasn't your ...i think you said it well, that it wasn't your baby, it was a potential baby. i agree with this thought as well, though i think at some point further along in a pregnancy, i may change my thinking if i were to lose it, but i do agree that an early loss is a lost potential, and not the loss of a baby.Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16811784941581874209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490650363114465915.post-87207804524739889782009-10-25T18:54:17.901-07:002009-10-25T18:54:17.901-07:00I really liked this post. With my two losses, I ne...I really liked this post. With my two losses, I never felt comfortable terming it my "angels" or using those little angel icons on message boards. While I certainly don't judge anyone who did, it wasn't right for me and seemed to want to lay my grief out in public in a way that I did not want to express it. <br /><br />In addition, like you, my grief after the losses was more Finn's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11981940225352570716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490650363114465915.post-1479324180866074752009-10-25T12:06:55.071-07:002009-10-25T12:06:55.071-07:00Everyone processes loss in a different way. What w...Everyone processes loss in a different way. What works for you might not work for somebody else, and vice versa. You are definitely not on the outside. <br /><br />Glad to have come across your blog. Looking forward to catching up with your story.<br /><br />All the best!Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09209567864607495587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490650363114465915.post-60433120571277681152009-10-24T21:47:20.948-07:002009-10-24T21:47:20.948-07:00Oh honey, you are not on the outside! I very much ...Oh honey, you are not on the outside! I very much believe with every fiber of my being that my babies are in heaven with God but I don't for one moment think any less or any differently about you because you don't belive that. In some ways you are right, I/we lost what could have been. I value your opinion and I don't believe you are wrong. I know what you believe is right for you andJesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13326718619587232436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490650363114465915.post-27061711252574952862009-10-24T20:04:17.310-07:002009-10-24T20:04:17.310-07:00Thanks for stopping by my blog, and for the commen...Thanks for stopping by my blog, and for the comments. I'm glad you did, so I could find your blog. It is honest and real and refreshing. ~LMLMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16979149756843327279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490650363114465915.post-44469240848774059482009-10-24T18:21:52.825-07:002009-10-24T18:21:52.825-07:00I'm sorry about what you've been through a...I'm sorry about what you've been through and about losing your beloved pet last month. (We had a cat that had lymphoma and chemo, so I understand how hard that is.) I agree that there is no "right" or "wrong" way to feel. You feel what you feel and that's okay. I like to think that most people respect that even if they feel differently than me, but I understand Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11568731053148296398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490650363114465915.post-10216780800932611162009-10-24T16:47:19.154-07:002009-10-24T16:47:19.154-07:00I've also been nervous about going to a suppor...I've also been nervous about going to a support group, for a variety of reasons. There really is no one way to feel or think during all of this. I actually relate to your feelings about your loss...I have had a couple myself and basically just try to move on and look forward to success. <br /><br />Wishing you all the best in your journey! <br /><br />ICLWAlicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05319942068629779927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6490650363114465915.post-90767162552131693882009-10-24T15:05:24.949-07:002009-10-24T15:05:24.949-07:00I think there is no "right" way to deal ...I think there is no "right" way to deal with and process your grief at your miscarriage. Nor is there any "right" way to think about an early pregnancy. I don't think that your view point makes your grief at what might have been any less real than anyone else.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18429595470734860049noreply@blogger.com